OUR CONVERSATIONS.

BEING INDEPENDENT ISN’T AN OPTION.

Some of his philosophies were really incorrigible, He says that every individual in this earth has to live independently. Some of us become too much dependent on our parents or wife or husband. He thinks that the main reason why people are dependent on each other is because, they aren’t well educated first of all, even if they are educated they don’t have a certain goal in their life to achieve and they let other people make their life decisions. This is the worst. So it’s very important for all of us to have a goal in life and one must work hard in order to fulfill it.

MARRIAGE IS NOT A REASON TO SACRIFICE THINGS.

Most of us, especially women give up on their dreams and passion after marriage.

IT’S OK TO MAKE MISTAKES, HAVE NO REGRETS.

We all at certain points messed up with things with cause us a great amount of regret and guilt. Some of us might have messed up the relationships that we have, some of us might have messed up in the job interviews, some of us might have scored less mark in board exams, and some of us might have misbehaved with people and still long for an apology. Grandpa said to me that it’s OK to make mistakes. Humans have the tendency to have the mistakes and it’s totally fine. What’s done is done, what’s lost is lost. There is no going back. So having a regret or guilt isn’t going to make things better. So just move on and quit whining.

LEARN TO LIVE HAPPILY WITH WHAT YOU HAVE.

Grandpa, even in his prime, he wasn’t a big officer, He was just an ordinary municipality clerk and he retired from the same post. But he never complained or blamed anyone. He just said, this is me and getting promoted to that post was my limit, I am not sad about it. Yes, there was poverty but that’s not a reason to sad, I had a family with five children, I had great friends and I almost tried to be happy as much as I could. So don’t ever feel sad about the situation you are in and don’t do self-pity. Cherish each and second you could and be happy with what you have. But never settle, tried harder, work harder, if things don’t work out just don’t give a damn. This thing which grandpa said had a great impact on me.

I LOVE YOU THATHA.

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